My daughter called to hash it out last night. The last thing I wanted to do. She picked the time and that was it. So I shut up and let her go. Basicly she shared she never felt I wanted her there before so she wasn't sure if she should come. When I didn't respond to her phone calls, which I couldn't, she did not feel it was an emergency or that she needed to drop everything and come to me.

If anyone, friend or family notifies me they are on the way to the hospital, no question I go right then. Obviously if I let them call her, I needed her. What am I missing?

The last time this happened she went ballistic because I did not inform her, this time I did and then she said I needed to again call her and let her know I needed her there.

I still think she is rationalizing her own actions with whatever she can grab on to so she doesn't have to take any blame because she blew it.