Pandora

We are so similar in our feeling, emotions and circumstances that it is frightening. I totally get the needed to feel like you have some how, in some way helped some one.

For a long time all I did here was take. I remember the feeling the 1st time someone
said thank you to me for something I had said. To know I had actually helped some one, even if it was just a smile I caused.

It is actually healing to know you helped some one. It is a validation that you do indeed exist! ! !

Sometime back I got into a huge "todo" here about the same subject. In fact, it caused quite a stir. I, like you, had no idea it would cause such a stir. But, you know me-----I love to stir the pot.

Yes people a here to heal. But isn't interaction with others part of that? But I am rambling so anyway, that's my 2 cents