Thread: Questions To Be Asked Of Ourselves
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Old 31-03-2008, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Cindy View Post
I don't trust my judgement or my ability to set boundaries and maintain them.
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I absolutely do not do that anymore, avoiding men and I think maybe girls for a while.
May I point out that while both of you think you do not have the ability to make the best choices when it comes to relationships, you have both been responsible and made a judgement that you can't make such a decision at present. That is something to be proud of. Rather than put yourselves back in to abusive situations you have chosen not to be in any. Fantastic starting point if you ask me - you realise there is a problem and you are doing something about it. In time you will learn to trust yourselves and may move more towards a relationship with others. Progress is good and you have both done that in realising the problem. Well done!
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