Monarch...it is interesting you just posted this as I had a discussion with my roommate that has been avoiding me and we have not had a harsh word to each other just really bad circumstances and in trying to pull info from her so I can move forward with my life........head down, arms folded, no eye contact and she couldn't look me in the eye. She sounded like she was upset ....kind of but she did look it???? I don't know anymore......HUGH!!!!