She...I can only relate in his way. When my Dad died my Mom wouldn't let me see my dads sisters or their families or my grandparents for a number of years...I was too young to fight back....all of them gone in one day so i missed growing up with my family and was not allowed to see them...long story short.....I know it is different than a mother/daughter bond but in my case my whole family was taken too so i understand that deep, dark, beeding heart, empty feeling. I was a child denied an entire extended family...granparents too.