I can see you are stuck with this but I think all you can do is encourage him to cut down and therefore save more money. If he doesn't have enough to immigrate this time is there a possiblitity to postpone it until he does?
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Originally Posted by Claire  Ultimately it is down to him. I assume he knows the deal. Its in his hands. You can encourage but that is all. |
speaking from experience alcohol numbed my husbands feelings - the ptsd was always there but he never spoke, only shouted.
i think that the quote sums it up perfectly - you can make all the suggestions in the world but it is in his hands.