Thank Claire.
Everything you have said, I was thinking about. I just really needed to voice it, get some perspectives, understand more.
Anyway, I didn't have to address it, he did it for me.
And today, he's got the flu anyway, so he's been forced on the wagon by nature anyway. He rarely gets the flu, so he's paying attention.
I think he's going to make it, actually I know it. Someone upstairs, the universe, whatever, wants him to make it.