Thanks Cowgirl.....I agree.

I did it. I sent an email ending it. I cannot help him anymore if he does not want the help. Plus, he has to WANT to get better and help himself. I was becoming obsessed with the problem and it is not healthy. And right now because of his ptsd, he has no room in his life for anything but himself.

Thank you everyone for all of your help, advice, straight talk, etc. I cannot tell you how much I appreciated the advice and all the stuff I learned on this forum. It has been an amazing gift.

Sisu