She Cat,

What an awful situation. It must be very difficult. I do not have much of a relationship with my mother and I am very guilty. I have not taken my childern to see her in 3 years, but I have kept the door open for her to come to my house anytime.

You could write her a letter and let her know that your door is always open if she or the children would like to visit. Next year your grandson will be old enough to visit you on his own.

It is very sad when families split. My grandmother died without ever mentioning the names of her parents. I am now trying to trace my family roots and I cannot get past my grandparents.