I have done a lot of thinking and soul searching as of late, and I have decided that I am way to angry at my daughter to even think of trying to talk to her on any level

One thing I NEVER did....Was keep her away from her grandparents when she was little. I think the longest was maybe a week or two do to the fighting, but I never did it longer than that. Even when I wasn't speaking to my mother, my daughter always had her grandparents.

I find my daughters behavior, childish, selfish, self centered, and to be perfectly honest.... She's a little bitch to do this to her children. THEY are innocent and did nothing to deserve this. The argument was between her and I. It did not involve the kids in any way.

Any parent that uses their children to hurt another human being is just plain nasty in my book. Parents that do this shit should be ashamed of themselves.

I can only hope and pray that what goes around, comes around.