Sisu

I think you did the right thing, but I know it is a tough decision to make.

Something that might help...

Take the PTSD out of the situation for a moment...just for a moment.

Now, think of basic common sense dating rules. Would you want to date a healthy person who treated you like this? Probably not. Would you constantly be as forgiving for a healthy person who exhibited bad behavior toward you? Most likely not.

Hopefully for his sake he will eventually take the path toward dealing with his PTSD. But only he can make that choice, and apparently he's not at that point yet.