Thanks Langdon for your support. I do feel really good about it. It is like a ton of weight lifted off my shoulders. I was so obsessed with helping him and forgiving him because of the ptsd, that I was being swallowed up. You are so right....I would have never allowed a "healthy man" to treat me like that. For my own mental health, I had to walk away. I hope that he will someday feel motivated to get help. Right now he is just surviving ~ not living.

I would have stayed forever if he even showed one ounce of respect for my feelings and met me part way....but that hasn't happened for about 9 weeks.

He has to do this on his own.

Have a wonderful week!
Sisu