Hi Rachel, Have you tried Wellbutrin? It is an anti-depressant that does not suppress the libido from what I have heard? It also helps control weight problems. When I first started taking it I lost 5 pounds and then I worked with it, because I didn't crave high fat foods and ended up losing 25 pounds. This medication doesn't work this way for every one but it does for a lot of people from what my doctor told me.

I have had no interest in sex for the majority of my life so I understand what your going through. I do it for the sake of my marriage and we use lubrication. It's unfortunate that it's this way but my husband is so nice about it and seems to understand. I'm reading some books on how to get my libido back. I think I repressed the urges for so long due to feeling uncomfortable in sexual situations that it is gone for ever.

Maybe you could ask your doctor about Wellbutrin or any other type of anti-depressant that does not affect your libido. This way you can get your sex life back the way it was and that would be one less worry for you.

Peace
Tammy