Linasmom:

I am on Effexor, also. My doctor said that if my libido goes down he can slightly raise the dosage and that usually makes a difference. I know that in a previous post, you had said they are raising your dosage. I'd be curious to see if that makes a difference.

It is very difficult for me to have an orgasm even when I am not on meds but so far I have not had a problem with Effexor, but like I said it takes major concentration and much time just for me to get to the point of orgasm.