I really appreciate everyone's suggestions, experiences and encouragements.

I've always felt "so-so" about sex. Sometimes I like it, and sometimes I do it for the intimacy- not necessarily because I think sex feels so great. But in the end, either way, I enjoy it. Also, I'm wondering if I'm going through a really bad depression at the moment and if that's what is causing it - I'm going to write about it in a different thread because it's something I'm really struggling with right now - whether things that I'm feeling are from the meds or are they because I'm going through a depression.

Tammy, as far as the Wellbutrin, I was put on a combination of Lexapro and Wellbutrin before going on the Effexor specifically for the libido problem except the Wellbutrin started making me hallucinate. I'm so anxiety ridden, and since Wellbutrin has a "get up and go" aspect to it, it totally put me over the edge. Even though I have the diagnosis of PTSD, I still question whether or not I'm bi-polar because when I'm not on meds, I have episodes of mania.

Well, still no sex, but I did buy him 3 fish today for his tank, I'm buying time!!!!!!!!!!

Best,
Rachel