Thanx Nicolette...thank you.....yes things are bad right now..I am trying to take it one day at a time...left a note for my roommate to see when she is pulling the utilities but she hasn't gotten back to me yet. i could see if we were fighting or had had harsh words but we have not..life..it is not always as it seems. i feel so incredibly used and taken advantage of....it just makes me feel so sick.