unbroken- I agree. There are so many different meanings to "care" in a healthy relationship both care for each other, but not in the sense of being a caregiver ideally (I realise in some cases this may be necessary).

I don't feel it's my responsibility to "cure myself" but it is to get myself better - ie to seek the resources, do the most I can, and ask for what I need. This isn't easy, and I've got a ways to go.