The doctors I prefer are the ones that do not rush you out of their office and they listen to what I say, even if it takes me a while to get it out. It angers me when a doctor cuts me off and tells me how I feel or listens but obviously doesn't hear me or thinks I do not know what I am talking about.

With a therapist I need one that listens but also helps me along sometimes and share a little with me; instead of me talking and them just staring at me. I prefer a flowing conversation. It helps me feel comfortable and build trust. If they can accept my comic relief and smile with me when I need a break, then they really win my approval.