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Originally Posted by Nicolette  you have to come to an acceptance of what happened and peace in what was just "was" whether it be right or wrong, fair or unfair. Acceptance and forgiveness allows us to let go of what we are hanging onto. |
Bingo! Nicolette, I totally agree. A couple of weeks ago, a very loved and trusted friend told me: "Faith really is a source of peace and joy and kindness. It's a place to rest and be restored. This is the Lord's gift to you, I think, after traumas in the past. So Enjoy!"
Of course, he knows I am religious. He emailed me that quote after I experienced one of those "aha!" moments where for a second I understood something about my mother. Now when I am feeling down I read that quote. It brings comfort.
I believe it is best to seek peace whether through forgiveness, compassion, understanding or acceptance. Not every action has a reason. I must admit; I cannot explain everything I do. Why do I expect to understand the actons of someone else? Yet, many days I still ask "why"!