I do those same things for Darling Husband. I buy him brand new teeshirts from the thrift stores, thus he gets a gift and I save money too. I make him no-bake cookies. I ask him on a regular basis,"What have you done for me lately?" and he responds, "A bunch!" and I say, "Could be more specific?" and "Do you think you deserve (fill in the blank, an elk steak?, Ben & Jerry's?, coconut shrimp?" I had to stop the sexy emails since his company monitors everything.