I agree with most that was said here. I would like to add to it though.

Non-judgemental is key, and accepting your beliefs. BUT, I also want them to challenge me 'gently' if I am saying BS and denying, hiding, or shutting down. I expect them to educate me. I expect them to respect my intelligence but also realize on some of the basic emotions I am illiterate.
I expect them to guide me with their questions and challenges. I expect them to take my lead when I am onto something.