Hi, I'm new to the forum and would like to know if Bella78 or deedlight have any updates to their situation as I am finding myself in a similar situation.

About 4 weeks ago my hubby went out with friends and never came home. He text messaged me and said he felt like he was going crazy and that he didn't think he should be with me and our son so I've been living with my mother because he refuses to come home if we are there. We've been in contact and he has seen me and my son, but we still haven't talked about what he's going through.

He's gone to see a civilian doctor who referred him to an army doctor, but he has not seen the army doctor yet.

I know each situation is different, but would like to know how either of you have approved your hubbies or if you just waited till they came around or I guess if you're still waiting.