Thanks for listening Nicolette.

I shouldn't say my son he is our son and he just turned one this past Sunday.

We have not talked because my husband will not discuss the matter. He is always too angry or stressed from work and will refuse to sit down with me. He keeps telling me that he knows we have to talk, but its never a good time.

I guess I left the house because I felt like I wanted my husband to have a place to come home to because he has no where else to stay other than with friends or at hotels. Also, its nice to have the extra help with my son.

Trying to understand if his behavior is caused by PTSD or just because he's "behaving badly" is what I'm struggling with and also whether or not he wants to try and work on himself and the relationship. What I'm really trying to determine is when do you say enough is enough and I know only I can answer that.