Hi spirit, Good for you! I'm glad to hear your coming to terms with yourself. This will get easier as you continue to work on yourself.

I think it is important to work on yourself first then find a partner.

While you are alone maybe you should give yourself a gift everyday. Light some candles and take a bubble bath. Or use aroma therapy and meditate. Make yourself your favorite dinner, and set the table like you would if you had company. Be good to yourself and you will start to love yourself.

Good luck!
Tammy