New Here...I Have No Idea What To Do Hi all, I need some sound advice and well-wishes, because I don't know what to do anymore. My husband of 3 and 1/2 years is in the army, and has been back from Iraq for 6 months now. He has been diagnosed with a "slight" case of PTSD, to which he replied "it's not a big deal, I'm not even going to go see anyone about it anymore." This was fine for a while, he has always had little outbursts of anger and temper tantrums, which I used to know how to deal with. Lately, his outbursts and temper tantrums have been more and more frequent, and recently he "shut me out" for about 2 weeks. He had never done this to me for this long, and I didn't know what to do. Some days he deals with everything perfectly, while other days, the smallest things set him off. Sometimes he hangs up on me when I call him, he doesn't answer my texts, and only tells me he loves me when I tell him I love him. I don't know what to do, what to say, or how to deal with this. I love him more than words can say, and want the best for him. I feel he should see someone, but I feel like I should not be the one to tell him this, and he should realize this on his own. Please help me. |