Hi Heartbroken. I'm sorry to say, but this is never going to happen if he has PTSD. I suggest you read the carer's section in the information section of the forum. Here is a quote that I think you could really use right now...

"Realize PTSD is a Life Long Condition. Do not waste time in thinking your loved one will eventually be cured or will go back to being the person they were before they had PTSD. One does not "get over" PTSD; it is permanent. Although your sufferer can reach a management stage and have a very fulfilling life, they will always need to work upon themselves to stay healthy. There will always be some matters they need to avoid. PTSD is now of a part of your life and theirs. It becomes part of the reality of not only the person with PTSD, but their family as well. It takes a while to integrate this into life. It's difficult, frustrating, tear-jerking and will be the cause of many arguments. However it can be done if everyone is committed to keeping relationships and family together." The Ideal Carer

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