Nicolette, I've tried to respond here a few times, and though I learned alot from what I had written, I didn't post it bc it all seemed to deep, leaving me feeling uncomfortable with posting it, seeing that others all could respond with a few sentences.

So, having thought much about my thinking behind my avatar change, what I came up with, short and simple, is that I'd like to have an avatar that I can identify with, but that is unique to me. Also, lately I've needed to call upon a source of strength which lies within me; And, one with some shared values with Spidey, and so I figured.....I'll go with Spidey-girl for now. So Spidey really represents to me many things; I guess some of which are: undying strength, independence, protection of self and others & justice.

So, I haven't changed none, I've simply decided to accept and own more, and if selecting an avatar (lol) prompts me to some more action and helps get this process on its way, .....then that's it.

Who would've ever thought that a thread and question posed on avatar changes would've got me thinking and responding so deeply, but it has.

Take care, Nicolette.


Hope