Sunny - I saw your post about the dryer. It scared me and when I left the house today my husband had something in the dryer with it running and I turned it off. Another thing to be careful of with the dryer if you use fabric softener sheets is that the softener can clog the mesh in the removeable filter. The heat "melts" the softener into the clothing and into the mesh as well. Take it out and run it under water and more than likely the water will pool on top of the mesh like it was solid instead of mesh. Just take a brush and soap and wash/rinse it until the water runs right through the mesh like it should. Thank God for little children.
I have seen some of your other posts as well and can see where a situation like mine could really hit home for what you have been through. When I delivered my second pregnancy (baby #3-TG) the nurses were even more amazing than at my first delivery - if that is even possible. They told me that they specifically remembered me when I delivered my twins because of what they see - so much heartache - that here was a couple that really, really wanted these babies and were so happy. They were thrilled to see two babies going home to a good family situation. When they heard I was delivering after the accident - they rolled out the red carpet at the hospital (so to speak). They were happy that we had another miracle.
I can't understand people treating anybody poorly especially an innocent child. It must cause you so much pain and confusion. Many things in this world don't make sense, we have to do our best to make sense out of them - if at all possible. Proud to have you as a friend - Sunny...