I do not tell my husband when I am having an episode but I know he knows. I don't talk much about it due to he is a sufferer of PTSD himself since his son was murdered. He also has issues from his past of abuse but just told me it happened but no details. I have not pushed it.
He knows most of my past and feels bad for me and agrees I have had enough of traumas for a lifetime. I told him alot when we first met so there were no surprises afterward.
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