I feel a bit like a voyer, but I had to say it is cute. Funny how life works out.

My two cents. I think acceptance is really big. And I have to believe that there is a perfect partner out there for everyone. Not neccessarily a "perfect" person, but the perfect partner for you. The person who will accept all those quirks and needs (ie. sense of humor, honesty...) that are unique to each person. And whose quirks and needs you can accept.