I think perhaps this all getting rather over heated.
It is inevitable that we will all bring our own value systems into this thread. However, I think that we should stand back a little from them and accept that there ARE other alternatives to those that we prescribe too!

C'mon girls we are all on the same side. Here is a good metaphor; I have a prism in my hand and I ask you all to look through it! You are all looking through the exact same prism, but your perspective as you look through it and beyond will be unique to each others', and you know what? That is Okay! It may not feel the same as your percpetion, but it will be just as colourful and beautiful.

We have lost the essence to this thread..........

Spirit x