i voted "many incidents throughout my lifetime”.

tho ignorantly choose to stay away from identifying/remembering most for survival... dont want to have a melt-down..

i used a term to my husband recently to explain what its feeling like of late...

i can picture like the side of a cliff, with all the different layers of rock/slate & compacted dirt... and i have this vision of that cliff face... with the knowing that there are fossils within each of those layers i havent been allowed to investigate/grieve/deal/accept etc....