Another thought, Jim -- your daughter and your wife might also want to make use of this forum. It is packed with experience, wisdom, and good practical ideas.

Glad you have some contacts...people who can perhaps "keep you in the loop" if your daughter wants no involvement. You and each member of your family are likely to have very different desires about what to do now that the man who assaulted your daughter has been found.

Keep talking with each other...keep checking in. One day at a time.