I am soo confused, I want to hold her and tell her everything is going to be allright but it seems that is the last thing she wants from me. We have something very special and the last month or so its almost as if I disgust her, she turns her cheek to me when i go to kiss her hello or goodbye. but when we hug she holds on like she never wants to let go. Our sex life, once spectacular is almost non existant. she just started seeing a therapist that suggested suspending overnites. its almost like she goes overboard happy to everyone else then looks at me like,"oh its you" I have started reading on ptsd and realize backing off is the best thing i can do. She is a survivor of a home invasion/rape by an ex husband that happened shortly before we met. she has never really addressed the issues just kind of went on with life...now she is(it will be one year in june). Can anyone help direct me? This is something very special we have, I do not want to let it just fade away. We truly love each other that much i know. the other day she wanted to break it off but could not bring herself to do so, she says she has to fix herself first,,,what can i do? what shouldnt i do?