Pressed reply too soon. Thank you Anthony for the compliments. Much appreciated and will tell Kathleen you think so too. She will be pleased. Agreed, there are some things one feels as a parent that are impossible to ignore. Thank you for the encouragement.

And. Received an email from Evie (I am currently away from home on business) which answers the question asked here. She is happy we wish to be involved. Takes it the right way, thankfully. Says it shows we care. For herself - she is anxious about it and needs time. But thanks us for being concerned. So. Feel far better hearing that. :-)

Thanks all.

Jim.