Marlene and Anthony I see your point and agree with it. Maybe it is the word understand that is the problem with my perception. I think you're right that people without PTSD cannot begin to comprehend the deep emotions and issues involved. I guess this is where I see the word empathy and understand as being confused by me.

I guess what I really wish is for people who care about me to listen to my concerns and be attentive to my responses instead of me always having to either hide them or explain them. I want them to accept them as part of me without challenging or dismissing them, and then just moving off into their own topics or interests to avoid me or my needs.

I don't share with others often but when I am comfortable to do so they don't want to listen, or worse - "just get over it". Few people take the time to just sit and set the time aside to listen. Many are wrapped up in their own lives.

I am reflecting only the experiences I have had with my immediate family.

But, anyway your points are well taken. Thanks.