Sorry, but I wanted to add something else.

I totally understand your frustration and anger; I would feel the same way if it were my child who had gone through this. BUT, acting out in violence or even saying that you would LIKE to act out in violence and hurt this perpetrator--(as sick and evil as he may be)--doesn't help the situation. When my brother found out about the rape, the first thing he did was buy a gun. I know he was angry, and I know he wanted to protect me. But instead of me focusing on how to get myself better, I had to worry about what my brother may do. I know that he was doing this because he felt helpless to do anything else, but it really just added to my anxiety.

I wish you and your family the best. I know this isn't easy; hang in there.

Nic