Nic,

I filed a complaint about an OBGYN after the birth of my first child. I was working 2 part-time jobs and had no health insurance. I could not pay the doctor bills, so I went on Medicaid.

My doctor was on vacation the day I was to be released from the hospital so another OBGYN was to sign me out. About 8 p.m. that evening she came in and lectured me about how I should get off my butt and get to work and get off the system. Then mumbled some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids.

When doctors cross the line and they should be called on it. What your doctor said is wrong. Just because she disagrees with your decision, does not give her the right to label you. Find another doctor.