cypher,
This sounds like a terrible, terrible sadistic movie. I cannot comment on this as,I am very disturbed by your story and you going through this. My only advise right now to you is GO TO THE POLICE. Do not let them in your home any longer. I don't know if this is the right advise to give you but, I would move and get a non-published number. I know one can't run away from their problems and must face them but this is too too much.
I will pray you do the right thing for yourself.
Welcome
sunnydaze