You need to stick to what you just said though.... NEVER allow them back into your house, life, anything to do with you. Do not be threatened, when you have a chance to run for aid, do so. Get police involved because you cannot handle them yourself, nor should you. Experience has taught you lessons, which you must use to learn from. Yes, they are unfortunate and nobody should ever have to learn such lessons, but the honest facts are that there are some nasty people in this world. Pick and choose carefully and most of all... trust your instincts. I just cannot tell people that enough. Women are far superior in this that males, to trust their instincts.

If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, its not a swan; its a duck. Trust your instincts and take control of your life. You do not control others, but you do control you. You do not control what another may do to you, however; you do control what you can do to help yourself. Well done cypher...