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cypher, Please understand, you cannot help your mom. The help she needs is way to complicated for you. Leave it in the professionals hands.
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As much as I hate to admit it, youre right. I really wanted to help her and feel badly that I couldnt. Youre right it's up to the pros to help her (if they can)
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I have searched all my life for a replacement mom even while my mom was alive. It just didn't happen. I am a mom and grandmother so I quit looking and desiring and wanting someone to hold me and say I love you like a real mom does. I am 55, it won't happen
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If you dont mind me asking, (I dont know if it's out of bounds??) but why did you stop looking? I think theres someone out there for everyone, regardless of age, or type of relationship. I hope you dont give up looking! You never know what will happen or who you'll meet. I hope you find what you've been searching for for so long!!
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You need to heal and that can only happen w/o her. Excuse me for saying this but I would put in my mind she has passed away so you can begin to heal.
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No offence taken, but very interesting thought! deep.
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This story has really touched me and a little part of me tried to say it is fictional. Nothing like this could have happened. I do realize in this crazy world it could. I will pray for you and your healing. Please listen to me and Anthony and the rest of this group. Anthony is a very wise man and does give excellant advise. I am afraid for you.
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Thanks, sometimes I dont even think it could have happened, but then look at all the scars and bam, it did. Yeah, I'm finding that this is a very supportive site!! I'm glad I found it. Anthony is very helpful, and yes, gives very good advise!! Everyone is great here!