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Originally Posted by Cecilia  Spirit:
I have guilt feelings especially if someone compliments me. Instead of accepting the compliment I try to analyze why they said it. Did I do something that made them feel like they had to make a positive response? Do they see I really suck and they are trying to make me feel better? I never assume they really mean it; there's always an alterior motive. Compliments are embarrassing and very uncomfortable for me. |
This is EXACTLY me. I've actually had many people become very upset with me because I had a hard time accepting their compliments.
I still have a very hard time accepting compliments. I think people are just lying to me to either "get" something from me, they feel badly for me, or because they feel like they "have" to give me compliments.