Awakening,

I wasn't going to respond to this, but changed my mind. Being a woman I can do that!

I really take offense to your statement......Well initially I couldn't believe the responses I was getting here, felt slighted, pissed off and like whose side are you all on anyway.

But I'm over that now and thanks for all your posts.

This isn't about taking sides.......You asked for feedback, did you not???? Then because you didn't like what we had to say, you got upset. Seems to me that if all of us and your therapist pretty much said the same thing then it would seem to me that it might be true, and you just didn't like hearing that. The truth can sometims be very painful, but once open to it, it can be very healing.

I really do hope that you can get past whatever it is that is stopping you from being open and honest with yourself. You will much improve when you finally do.