Pand,

Calm down. Ok so the nurse is a witch, and she has never had to deal with PTSD or a back injury. Please don't lower yourself to her standards by wishing anything on her. What goes around, comes around, we all know that.

So is it just the nurse that has you so pissed, or is it the fact that you are going to need a commode???? If it's the commode, well you need to just adjust to it for a few days. We all have obstacles, that we need to overcome, your back injury is one that you need to accept that you will/do have limitations.

If it's the nurse, then have a chat with her superior the next time that you go in and explain how upsetting it was.

In the mean time... Go relax, we will talk later.

Hugs.....