Herc,

It's hard when parents become sick, old and frail. We see the process everyday, and everyday it wears on us. It's the small things that they lose, that are the big things for us. It frustrates us that they can't remember how to do a simple task, thought, or action. We see them slipping and we want to stop that process.

You fear what you know is coming. You fear the daily loss of your mom. You fear being alone. Your fear becomes stressful and you become angry.

Herc your fears are real and they are normal. You need help. Have you found a new T yet??? You need a way to relieve your stress too.

Try and be good to yourself.