Thanks for the input and invite Grama
I did not mention that this is the 4th time I have snatched this 29 year old man up and was going to DX him. Like I said he is BiPolar but if he lays a hand on me (the step mother), I snap. The last time I grabbed him by the front of his t-shirt twisted it around my arm so tight that once again he could not breath. I waited until his face was purple/blue before I let go....only because we were in public.

I scare the heck out of myself because yes we were trained to do this stuff in the military........but not let go......I think we all know what we are capable of doing.

But the guy is dangerous. He is a wife beater....One of our Mastiffs attacked him in our home one day after he pushed his sick father (my husband) in the hallway. The dog snapped , jumped up and with paws on each shoulder pinned that young man to the back door and was going to tear his throat out.

I will try to avoid him as much as possible....he is scared to death of me because I just assume eliminate him the easy way.....and he knows it.

Just trying to keep it together. Diet coke and cigars.

Kel