Kay,

I have just read my husbands last post, just to put your mind at ease.........talk away. I am just glad that he is talking to someone and if that helps you both, bonus. As you would understand, better than I am ever likely to, those with PTSD do not like to share their traumas with those close to them. At least not in any great detail. That is fine as long as you can find someone to confide in. Something about sharing burdens and halving them.

Anyhow, back to the cat, excuse my bluntness but I think giving away your cat is mean. I love my pussies too much, it would not be pretty if someone came between me and my cats. In fact I have been known to cry at the mention of my cats when I am away from them. Anthony is right, I am an animal lover, which comes from growing up on a property (kind of like a farm) and having the responsibility of all kinds of animals at a young age. I have a theory that if you learn to love the little creatures then it allows you to develop emotional skills to love the bigger ones. Besides that, animals are such loving creatures, how could you not love them in return? Anyhow, I have hijacked enough space here, take care.