Good advice Lisa!

While Lisa says she struggles she has been very smart and trained herself to deal with her shortcoming (sense of time). That is managing your illness and being responsible.

As for your partner, well, I think he is kidding himself and you unfortunately (and I say that in the nicest possible way). I can't see why he can keep the cable and internet paid and not the others unless it comes down to importance. Is there some other way you can manage it? Sometimes if you are not capable of doing something yourself it can be helpful to engage someone who can help you.