You do not control others Pandora and you regardless what you may perceive as being helpful, sometimes interference can be more stressful when a person just wants space and room to breath for a while by themselves. I would only suggest you do not frustrate yourself with what others do, as basically you are allowing another sufferer, friend or not, to take you down with them. If a person wants a break and doesn't want contact offline either, then all you can do is respect their request. If they go kill themselves, its not your fault, nothing you or another could do would have stopped it. Stop worrying about what you do not control is my suggestion... |