Tammy:

My T told me the exact same thing last month. I was telling her some issues I was having and she said "why do you hang out with losers?" I was shocked and then she started going down the list of my friends and things I have told her.

She said my friends list showed a complete lack of confidence. Her advice was to be picky about my good friends and surround myself with people trying to have positive attitudes. It's contageous.